After I worked that
lovely 12 hour shift last Sunday, I met a friend for coffee. We have known each other since I was 13, so
almost 18 years. About half of those
years were spent not talking to each other due to some not-so fun college drama caused by the
very immature person I used to be. There
are very few people outside of my family that know the various versions of me
that have existed in my 31 years of life, she is one of them. I cut ties with pretty much everyone I knew
in college because I didn't like the person I was then and I felt a lot of
shame, guilt and embarrassment for a lot of the decisions made during a three
year span of my life.
However, God isn't
done with either of us and wasn't satisfied with how our relationship ended and
he has been working big time in both of our lives. Through the wonders of social networking, we reconnected a few years ago and have started to rebuild our friendship. It is providence, plain and simple that God has us both in the spot we are in at this point in time so that we can work together to achieve some similar goals in our lives and in our faith.
It didn't hit me until I was home from our coffee date, in my bed, spending some end of the day time with God that I realized just how different I am now compared to the girl I was in or freshly out of college. For once in my life, I actually felt like I was a new creation. Like God's love, patience and mercy wasn't wasted on me, He has transformed me and I am new. Without her acknowledging that I have changed, I don't know that I would have been able to realize this. I'm excited to get to start growing our relationship again with Christ at the center of it, which is very different from before.
It didn't hit me until I was home from our coffee date, in my bed, spending some end of the day time with God that I realized just how different I am now compared to the girl I was in or freshly out of college. For once in my life, I actually felt like I was a new creation. Like God's love, patience and mercy wasn't wasted on me, He has transformed me and I am new. Without her acknowledging that I have changed, I don't know that I would have been able to realize this. I'm excited to get to start growing our relationship again with Christ at the center of it, which is very different from before.
Fast forward to last
Saturday & Sunday.
I went to church on
Saturday night and the message was fantastic and it started out with a running
story. I had a long run on the schedule
for Sunday of 8 miles, farther than I have ever run before, so I was excited to
have a little extra motivation to keep me pushing ahead. You can check out the message here.
The message was called "Why I Keep Going" and it was the last in our "Am I Really a Christian?" series. Pastor Jason Anderson outlined three ways to develop endurance:
1) Push through trouble
2) Let God shape your beliefs, not culture
3) Draw near to God and stay there
Pretty great stuff. One of the passages that he focused on has stuck with me and I've read it a few times this week
Therefore, my beloved, as you have always obeyed, so now, not only as in my presence but much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling, for it is God who works in you, both to will and to work for his good pleasure. Do all things without grumbling or questioning, that you may be blameless and innocent, children of God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and twisted generation, among whom you shine as lights in the world, holding fast to the word of life, so that in the day of Christ I may be proud that I did not run in vain or labor in vain. (Phil 2:12-16, ESV)
On Sunday, I started
to mentally prepare for my run. My mom
came over to watch the kiddos during their nap so that I could head out on my
run before James got home from work. I
headed out around 1:30 and ran on a trail that follows the Mississippi River, I
was doing a 4 mile out and back trip.
The sky was overcast, it was in the low 30's and light flakes of snow
were slowly falling. In my book, it was
a really crappy day for running, but I wasn't going to let that stop me. I got my play list ready and started run
keeper and I was off. I tried really
hard to focus on keeping my pace nice and slow so that I could run as long as
possible before taking a walking break.
I decided that the only way I was going to make an 8 mile run was if God
was with me, so I decided to take the opportunity to pray. I prayed for the entire 8 miles, I made it
about 6.5 miles before I had to take a quick walking break and walking was
actually more difficult because I had formed a really nice rhythm, so I quickly
went back to running. I kept running
until about mile 7 and then had to take another quick break and then I finished
strong to the end. My pace got slower
with each mile, so I really want to focus on starting even slower to try and
keep the pace more steady, but overall, I was happy with how the run went.
Here are the results. I think I'll always be painfully slow, at least until I'm out of the obese/overweight category. I run much better when I accept that.
Here are the results. I think I'll always be painfully slow, at least until I'm out of the obese/overweight category. I run much better when I accept that.
The best part of the
run was during mile 5 when I was headed back to the car, I was headed up a
small hill and I hadn't taken a break yet and I was in complete awe of the
endurance that God had given me. The
song Break Every Chain by Jesus Culture was on, the chorus of the song was on
and the lyrics are
There
is power in the name of Jesus to break every chain
I could literally
feel my body getting lighter as I powered up the hill and in my mind I just had
this visual of throwing off chains and baggage and leaving them on the
hill. It was AMAZING! It was such a reminder to me that God has
helped me to get rid of the chains keeping me enslaved to food and self
doubt. He is giving me the strength to
endure long runs and the difficult times in my faith. God makes THE BEST running partner, hands
down.
Inevitably, after
having a wonderful afternoon where I felt extremely connected to God, by the
end of the day, I felt completely depleted and defeated. Spiritual warfare is real friends, I strongly
believe that.
From Sunday evening
through last night, I was extremely crabby, my eating was out of control and I
started to have major doubts about signing up to run a half marathon. I saw an article written by an elite athlete
talking about how slow runners and people who walk are a disgrace to the sport
of running and have no respect and have no place in races. I was really irritated because they made it sound like people who aren't in the front of the pack don't train hard and don't take things seriously, which is far from true. Then, yesterday during a quick stress-relief
run before my small group, I was heckled by a passer by in a car. It has been a while since that has happened
and it crushed me.
Last night I started
to feel better after small group with my bestest ladies. We are studying Romans and there are some
really great discussion questions in the study we are doing (Romans: A Blackaby Bible Study Series).
I did end up making an appointment with a doctor who specializes in weight loss because I'm done
with being frustrated trying to figure out the right balance of nutrition on my
own and there are way too many opinions out there. I'm meeting with a doctor because I
want a medical opinion, I don't want to be sold on any fad diets or products, I
just want an honest assessment of where I am and where I am going. I'm also hoping meeting with this specialist
will help me set a reasonable long term goal.
Well, I suppose that
about does it for updates. If I don't
get the chance to post again before Sunday, Happy Easter!!! If you live in the Minneapolis/St. Paul area
and want to go to a church but don't have anyone to go with, please e-mail
me! We'd love to have you join our
family and I promise it won't be weird and no one will make you do anything
you don't want to do. I am 100% serious about this.